Being mad for her loved one the girl spends quality time with Him. Every day, whether she is near of far from His lotus feet, she thinks of Him and lovingly remembers Him in a favorable way, in fact He is so attractive that she cannot forget Him for a moment. Because of her constant remembrance, her desire to please Him becomes her only desire. Quickly she attains Him.
We see that in the initial stages attraction is there, but if our girl meets her perfect boy and is too busy looking at some other attractive boy who seems pleasing to her senses, being fooled by maya's illusory energy she will not notice the man of her dreams and will pay no attention to him.
The girl may meet her perfect Man and immediately become attracted to Him. If she remains faithful to Him, and meets with Him every morning, her attraction will grow. In addition, if she hears of His glories and qualities, if she learns of His friends and associates, along with His family members. Very soon her love for her most attractive paramour will increase incalculably.
